I think the newdot folder has already been deleted so the message is given. Remove its reference from loading with windows, use msconfig, or some tools like regcleaner, or manualy with regedit from Run keys.
For the problem of not being able to reach the "X" button, you need to adjust the geometry of your monitor. You probably have buttons in your monitor for that. For the icons being large, looks like screen resolution is set too low. Adjust it from display properties.
CuratoR.
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