Are you sure you don't have a RAM problem? Is it all the same brand? What brand is it? What size sticks and in which order of loading?
52C isn't in the critical stage for a 1.4. AMD finally stated that anything below 65C is fair game. For a long time AMD had a ceiling of 72C.
As for the Thermal Paste Arctic Silver is the only way to go. And a thin layer at that, only on the chip-die. IMHO I don't prefer to use the thermal pad. But it has to be taken off with a thumb nail prior to using a thermal paste. Using both at once is a no-no.
The 1.4 can be a bear sometimes about which BIOS it likes to play with. And the very latest version isn't always the one that works best.
Are all your drivers XP compatable?
Luck.
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