I have read both your post but I do not have a good idea of what your trying to do.
Could you start over with what your school project is meant to accomplish?
If you simply want to connect to a share then open your "run" box and type \\computername\share and a window to that share will pop-up. (replace "computername" with the remote computer's name and "share" with the shared folder's name.)
If you want to see what the computer is sharing then type \\computername and a window of open shares will pop-up.
Note that you can also use the computer's IP address in place of the "computername".
Good Luck 
EDIT Have you ran the "networking wizard" on the XP laptop?
Last edited by Ghost_Hacker; 07-09-2002 at 11:17 AM.
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